More Than a Manger: The Present—The Real Gift of Christmas (Part 6)

The Real Gift of Christmas is One We Don’t Deserve & Can’t Live Without

Ever received an awkward gift you didn't expect or deserve? Christmas celebrates the best gift of all—it's freely given and lasts forever.

“For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” —Romans 6:23 NLT

Have you ever felt awkward when you unexpectedly received a Christmas gift from someone for whom you had no gift? You hadn’t planned to give them a gift, yet they sacrificed their time and resources to present you with one, leaving you humbled and feeling like you’ve fallen far short of what’s expected or good. 

We sometimes refer to gift-giving as “exchanging gifts”, but is it truly a gift if something is expected in return?

A common response to receiving a gift is, “You didn’t have to do that!” The expression stems from our innate understanding that we’re unworthy of the gift because we did nothing to earn it. But that’s precisely why it’s a gift—it’s given willingly and without payment. A gift is not a gift if it’s given out of obligation. By definition, it’s undeserved. 

If you and I received what we deserve today, we wouldn’t be here. As sinners who fall far short of God’s holy standard, we have earned death and eternal separation from God. The Bible confirms this contrast: while sin earns death, God offers the free gift of eternal life in Christ Jesus (Romans 6:23).

The concept of a “free gift” is misleading, because nothing is truly free; everything costs someone something. This is true of our salvation. We can receive this gift not because of anything we’ve done, but because of who God is and because of the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, who paid for it with His life. Out of the love and kindness of His heart, God chose to grant us what we don’t deserve—eternal life with Him.

Don’t miss the last two words of the previous sentence—with Him. God’s gift to us is life, but it’s better than that—it’s life with Him. When we receive His gift of salvation by grace through faith, we also receive the gift of His presence—God with us, Immanuel. His Spirit dwells in us, and He never leaves us (1 Corinthians 3:16, Hebrews 13:5, Romans 8:38–39).

The wonder of Christmas is God’s incredible love for us, His desire for a relationship with us despite the problem of our sinful nature, and the marvelous fulfillment of God’s promise to save us. 

Take a moment to thank God for the gift of salvation you could never earn, but that He gave freely because of His great love.

Christmas celebrates the free gift of abundant and eternal life with God, made possible through Jesus.

Additional Scripture:

Romans 5:1
Ephesians 2:8–9
1 Timothy 1:15–17

More Than a Manger

Does the Christmas story feel too familiar? Has the holiday hustle overshadowed the holy? This post is one of a six-part series to help you reflect on the glorious meaning behind this yearly celebration. Read the rest here.

Rediscover the Full Wonder of Christmas Through Scripture

More Than a Manger Christmas Scripture Reading Plan

The “More Than a Manger” Scripture Reading Plan is a free, beautifully designed guide that walks you through the complete story of our Savior’s birth in 25 key passages.

This flexible plan is intentionally simple so you can use it in a way that best fits your Christmas traditions. Use it…

  • For Personal Quiet Time: Prepare your own heart for worship.
  • As a 25-Day Advent Reading: Focus on one Scripture passage each day.
  • As a 6-Day Devotional: Read one section each day leading up to Christmas.
  • For Your Family or Small Group: Share it as a special reading on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day.


Complete with reflection prompts, this reading plan will help you quiet your heart, restore your sense of awe, and focus on the true meaning of Christmas.

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